To “JJ”: Thank you for finding and reading my blog. Thank you for reaching out to me to tell me that reading my blog helped you. I won’t say anything more about what you wrote as I want to protect you as much as I can from “Ant”. On one hand I’m glad he talked so poorly of me that caused you to google me and find my blog. I’m not a terrible person, I’m not crazy, I’m not unhinged. I’m a nice person, I care about others, I have great friends, I’m in a loving relationship.
On the heels of watching the interview with Anderson Cooper and Jennie Willoughby about her abusive ex-husband, Rob Porter, I just need to roar! YES Jennie! Thank you for your grace, your vulnerability and your courage to #standthefuckup! It’s been 155 days since I had any contact with my abuser. 155 days to “get over it”. 155 days to “move on”, “let it go”, “forgive and forget.” But I will not get over it, although I am healing, I will not let it go although I will move b