I’ve been trying to understand why something I went through nine years ago can still resurface in such a raw way. A few days ago, I was talking with my sister. She was telling me about a situation her co-worker—let’s call her Angie—is dealing with at work. As she described the behavior of Angie’s boss, I felt myself getting triggered almost immediately. That surprised me. I hadn’t fully considered that this kind of abuse doesn’t just exist in romantic relationships. It shows