To “JJ”: Thank you for finding and reading my blog. Thank you for reaching out to me to tell me that reading my blog helped you. I won’t say anything more about what you wrote as I want to protect you as much as I can from “Ant”. On one hand I’m glad he talked so poorly of me that caused you to google me and find my blog. I’m not a terrible person, I’m not crazy, I’m not unhinged. I’m a nice person, I care about others, I have great friends, I’m in a loving relationship.
It’s been a year since the abusive relationship I was in ended. It ended because he could not handle the fact that I was standing up for myself and he could no longer control or manipulate me. He ended it, as with most narcissists, after he found my replacement – which was the last communication I had with him. He proclaimed that the universe finally brought him someone deserving of his love and affection. Poor, poor girl. The shame of being in an abusive relationship has